Playing cat and mouse dating
This video and transcript are of their talk at the morning chapel about the problems with "cat and mouse" dating. And I’m super excited to be here this morning because you are getting the fresh thoughts of what it means to have equality in dating and romance.
Like in the old cartoon I used to watch, Tom and Jerry, when the cat is chasing the mouse, and the mouse is always trying to devise ways to beat up on the cat.
And so, in our romance and in our marriage I made sure my role was met as best as I could, and what was my role? Number three - don't have any long term career goals where you're gonna have to uproot your husband to go move where you want to go because you need to stop your career at a moment’s notice if you need to raise your children.
Which we hadn't had at that point, but I felt like I had to be ready for that.
And as we processed this, we started to push against and ask questions.
Are we trying to fit into certain roles, or do we need to create roles that fit us?
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And these were things not just modelled or encouraged by people who explained scripture to me, these were modelled by generations of my family back. The women took care of the kids, stayed home and made things great at home. And I found, as I was trying to fill this role, I couldn't keep up.